Author Archives: Amy Kay Watson

The Architecture of Repair: A 5-Step Protocol to Operationalize Conflict Resolution

How to move your team from “who is to blame?” to “how do we fix it?” using restorative principles. Conflict is not just an HR issue; it is operational drag. When trust fractures in a high-performing team, information flow slows down, decision-making creates friction, and innovation stalls. Most managers default to one of two modes

The Leader as Regulator: A Practical Guide to Navigating the Change Dip

Summary: When change moves faster than our team’s capacity to adapt, leaders need more than resilience—they need the skills of a Leader as Regulator. This post explores the predictable performance “Change Dip,” the observable data that shows your team is stuck in “The Labyrinth,” and provides a Leader’s Diagnostic Toolkit to restore performance by rebuilding

Do Jerks Get Hired for Management? A Look at Empathy vs. Toughness

Split-screen image of two men in professional attire, blended at the center. The man on the left is smiling, warmly lit, and positioned in a bright open-plan office, representing empathetic leadership. The man on the right has a neutral expression and stands in a cooler-toned, darker boardroom, representing a tougher management style. A quote appears in the top right: “The best managers aren’t soft or cutthroat—they’re clear, compassionate, and firm.”

Inspired by Dave Anderson’s article at Scarlet Ink. The Leadership Myth Whether we say it aloud or not, the intuitive wisdom about leadership (which clearly grew out of the machoism of the mid-twentieth century) is that tough leaders get ahead, but empathetic ones get ignored. It’s such old thinking that it feels instinctive: forceful personalities

Kindness that Delivers Results

Diverse team in a calm discussion, an empathetic leader leaning in, listening attentively.

Kindness as a Leadership Imperative This article unpacks key findings from “Why Kindness isn’t a Nice to Have” by by Nicki Macklin, Thomas H. Lee and Amy C. Edmondson and explains how leaders can turn kindness from a “nice to have” into a practical, performance-driven management discipline. Table of Contents Why Kindness Matters More Than